Be direct. Don't mince words. Tell your parents that you smoke and that you want them to know because you're concerned for yourself and for their opinion. Consider something to the point, i.e. "Dad, all I want to tell you is that I smoke" or "Mom, I'm sorry but I smoke."
What happens when your parents find your vape?
When your parents find the vape, they will most likely throw a fit and become angry and concerned. Now, you’re waiting for THE TALK which all of us have experienced as kids. There are a dozen different scenarios playing out in your head about how this will all turn out none of them typically end well for you.
How can I talk to my child about vaping?
Having open and honest conversations with youth about the dangers of smoking as well as vaping is always a good start. Scheduling an appointment to meet with their care provider or with a pediatrician at UI Stead Family Children’s Hospital is a good first step as well. Q: Is it safe to vape around children?
How do you know if you've been vaping?
Craving more salt or spice could be a sign of a drier mouth, which could be caused from vaping. That in combination with having nosebleeds from a drier nose can also be a clue into vaping.
Why does my 13 year old son vape?
Young people his age have a tendency to do things like vaping to look cool or simply to piss you off.. Another reason is he may actually enjoy it. Don’t sit with him and nag him about how you don’t want him vaping. Send him information on how dangerous vaping is and how it presents risks to his health.
What are 5 signs that someone is vaping?
There are several telltale signs to watch for.Finding unusual or unfamiliar items. Vaping devices usually come with detachable parts. ... Behavioral changes, mood swings, agitation. ... Shortness of breath. ... Poor performance. ... Sweet fragrances. ... Weight loss. ... Nausea, vomiting. ... Mouth sores, abnormal coughing, throat-clearing.More items...•
How do you convince parents to let me vape?
Convincing Your Parents To VapeGetting Your Parents Into Vaping. The truth needs to be said and we are the first ones admitting that vaping can be a bit confusing. ... #1: Just Tell Them How You Feel: Smoking is a bad habit. ... #2: Listen To How They Feel: ... #3: Encourage Your Parents All The Time: ... #4: Don't Get Frustrated:
Is it good to vape at 13?
Vaping puts nicotine into the body. Nicotine is highly addictive and can: slow brain development in teens and affect memory, concentration, learning, self-control, attention, and mood. increase the risk of other types of addiction later in life.
Can my doctor tell my parents I vape?
A: No, your doctor will not share this information with your parents unless there are serious concerns about your safety, such as if you were feeling so sad that you were thinking of hurting yourself.
Can dentist tell if you vape?
The answer is yes. While some people switch from smoking to vaping because they may think vaping is a safer alternative to smoking, studies show that it is just bad for your teeth and gums. Vaping has the same adverse effects on your oral health as smoking and your dentist WILL be able to tell.
Why do teens vape?
addiction, they like the “hit” they get from nicotine. appealing flavors (e.g. fruit, candy, dessert) devices are seen as trendy, or a status symbol. they consider vaping “harmless” and “safer than smoking” in order to quit or cut down on smoking.
What happens if a 14 year old vapes?
Nicotine can harm the developing adolescent brain. The brain keeps developing until about age 25. Using nicotine in adolescence can harm the parts of the brain that control attention, learning, mood, and impulse control.
Can I vape at 15?
A: The federal minimum age to purchase e-cigarette products is 18, but the laws vary by state – 49 states have set a minimum age that is older than 18. Unfortunately, the majority of underage vaping users are still getting the products from local gas stations or areas in their community that sell the products.
What do I do if I catch my kid vaping?
If your child is caught vaping or admits to vaping, try to stay calm and non-judgmental. Listen, don't lecture....Invite your child to talk, be patient and ready to listen.Try to understand their feelings.Avoid showing judgment.Keep asking questions and check to make sure you understand.
What does vaping smell like?
E-cigarettes don't smell bad like the smoke from combusting tobacco, however, most e-liquids have flavors in them that usually smell nice like candy, mint, vanilla, fruit punch etc. If you catch a sudden whiff of any of these but none of them is around, consider this a red flag. that it could be a vaporizer.
What does vaping feel like?
Yes, vaping gets you buzzed, a feeling that's also called a “nic buzz.” “What is a nic buzz?” you ask? Well, vape pens and e-cigarettes use cartridges that contain liquids made from different chemicals, including flavoring, and yes, nicotine.
Can u vape with braces?
Nicotine products could prolong your orthodontic treatment. The American Dental Association states that vaping is not a safe alternative to cigarettes and could be just as damaging to the teeth and gums. Nicotine reduces blood flow in the mouth, which damages the gum tissue and can potentially lead to gum recession.
How old do you have to be to buy an e-cigarette?
A: The federal minimum age to purchase e-cigarette products is 18, but the laws vary by state – 49 states have set a minimum age that is older than 18.
Does vaping cause lung infections?
A: Vaping turns off the immune system in the lungs and makes it harder to clean them up. Having more lung infections could be a sign of vaping-related sickness. Additionally, combining nicotine with caffeine can increase anxiety, and could be a sign of vaping-related side effects.
Sir2fyablyNutz ECF Guru Verified Member ECF Veteran
hi @StealthVape96 and welcome to the forum. I doubt there is an easy way to do this. But.... (there's always a but)... Why not just try the truth, like you just told us? You made a wise decision getting off the cigs. The second part will be in educating them, as some people are rather uninformed.
roxynoodle Unregistered Supplier ECF Veteran
Just tell the truth. That's always the easiest. "Dad, I know you never wanted me to smoke, but unfortunately I did. And now I'm using vaping to quit."
roxynoodle Unregistered Supplier ECF Veteran
I know its not the end of the world, I'm just looking for a way to come out with the truth, I'd rather be honest about it then him find out, I think my dad would be way more hurt if he caught me doing it.
Jman8 Vaping Master ECF Veteran
Ok so I've been vaping for a long while now, just over a year and I still don't think my parents know that I vape. I used to smoke for a little while socially and then just an average smoker for a little while. After two or three months of smoking I finally decided to try and tame my addiction and got onto vaping.
kkiet Ultra Member Verified Member ECF Veteran
Just be honest, my son used to smoke and really had a hard time quitting. I would have rather had him vape than smoke.
kieranwilson07 Full Member
Honesty is the best policy. I started smoking when I was about 16. A year later my dad found out. He was more disappointed I have kept it from him than he was I was smoking. Just tell him. He'll be angry and upset to start with but ultimately you are his child... he will forgive you eventually
WickedSick Ultra Member ECF Veteran
Be honest This is your only option if you don't want being under constant surveillance after you are inevitably found out.
How to tell your parents you are not in danger?
Reassure them. Take a deep breath and go for it. Before you get into details, though, keep in mind that your parents have no idea what you are about to say. Be reassuring. Let them know that you are not in immediate danger.
How to stop smoking with your parents?
Stay calm. Avoid getting angry with your parents. They have your best interest at heart, even if they are unhappy with your smoking. The important thing is for you to get their help to stop smoking.
How to break bad news to your parents?
1. Find a quiet moment. Your parents will react better if you talk to them at a quiet moment, ideally when they are relaxed. Look for a time when your mom or dad is relaxed and is ready to give you their full attention. Often the evening is a better time to break bad news than the day.
How to get started with quitting?
Make a plan. Make a plan of action with your parents so that you can get started with quitting. Take their advice, take their help, and do whatever it takes. They will want to pitch in and should make an effort to support you.
Can you talk to your parents at home?
The same goes for your parents. Talking at home will work if you don't have house guests. You might also be able to have a conversation in the car, on a walk, or another place where you're alone. Telling your parents over the telephone can also work, so long as you know that they are free to talk.
The Law
- Are you old enough to be smoking or vaping? In December 2019, the federal minimum legal age to buy e-cigarettesand other tobacco products was raised from 18 to 21 in all states. It’s illegal for stores to sell vaping devices, e-liquid, or vape pods to people under age 21. Naturally, your paren…
Health & Addiction
- There’s no doubt that nicotine is an addictive substance and can have serious health consequences. Vaping pens can be modified to use tobacco, liquid nicotine, or marijuana – all addictive substances. Addiction is very sneaky and you may think that you can stop vaping any time you choose but it won’t be as easy as throwing out your vape pen. These urges come back …
A Question of Trust
- Your parents may feel that you have betrayed their trust by using the e-cigarettes “behind their backs.” They know that as a teenager, you’re often faced with hard decisions and they want to be confident that you’ll make smart choices based on the values they’ve taught you. When they see behavior that doesn’t match up, they can feel that they’ve somehow failed you. Your parents ma…
What’s in Your Vape Pen?
- Maybe you’ll tell your folks that you don’t use nicotine so that makes it safer. You should know that research is still ongoing and it’s really too early to tell the long-term impacts of e-cigarettes, with or without nicotine. The vape flavorings that sound so yummy to eat become harmful when they are vaporized and inhaled. Many teens also believe that vaping is better than smoking cigar…
Are All Your Friends Vaping?
- Whatever you say, please don’t tell your mom and dad that all your friends are vaping. It won’t matter to them that 3.6 million middle and high school students are using e-cigarettes. If you do go ahead with the ‘all my friends’ defense, they’ll most likely tell you to stay away from them because of their bad influence. Parents know all about how teens need to “fit in”. In fact, you don…
Targeting Children & Teens
- The e-cigarette industry targets most of its advertising toward young people. One well-known e-cigarette company has advertised its products on popular youth media such as Nickelodeon, the Cartoon Network, and Seventeen magazine, as well as on educational sites for middle school and high school students. Maybe you’re an independent thinker and you wanted to vape to feel what …
Final Thoughts
- It can be hard to have open discussions on difficult topics with your parents. There will be a time when you don’t know what to say when your parents find your vape. You will become nervous and scared from the reaction they might give. If you are also under 18, your parents might start restricting your freedom. Share your thoughts about vaping and the reasons you decided to use …